Through our Charlotte sy Dimby dresses, we have made the most wonderful encounters. Over the years we have built deep bonds with many inspiring mums and been deeply touched by their uplifting stories. Kari's is one those. May her journey of hope and faith warm your heart.
Kari's greatest treasure - her rainbow baby daughter Claire :
Chad and I had been married twelve years, travelled the world, I landed my dream job and decided we were ready to have a baby. We were beyond thrilled when we discovered I was expecting and told our families. All seemed just perfect.
Unfortunately, Christmas Day 2019, I lost the baby. Heartbroken but clinging to my faith, Romans 8:18 brought me comfort. “The pain that you have been feeling can’t be compared to the joy that is coming”.
Almost 2 years later as I was praying and asking God for a baby the most gorgeous bluebird landed in front of me. I felt in my heart God was answering my prayer. Little did I know I was already carrying my own little bluebird. And she truly has brought us more joy than I could have ever imagined!
Claire is my greatest joy. Once I held her in my arms, everything else in the world became a little less important. I find myself mesmerized daily by her blue eyes, her laughter, her zest for life and overall happiness. God knew my heart needed Claire.
From career to motherhood :
I knew since I was 17 years old that I wanted to be in medical sales. I worked as an operating room nurse for several years and had the opportunity to go into medical device sales. That career change allowed me to travel, educate other medical staff on products and interact with so many people across the country and world. A great experience.
Before Claire I was career oriented. I worked a lot and found my identity/ happiness in work. Always chasing accolades or advancement within my company. Then once I held her in my arms it changed me forever. I no longer cared about any title other than mom. She completely changed me. It was also right after the Covid pandemic restrictions, so the medical field was even more stressful. I never thought I would even want to be a stay at home mom. I didn’t think that was ever an option for me.
Yet while on maternity leave I spent many hours praying, crying, and asking God if there was a way that I could stay home with my baby. Once again he found a way! I truly believe he does answer the desires of our heart when it aligns with His will.
Our favorite dress from Charlotte Sy Dimby :
Our first dress - the
white heirloom dress ! It is a classic, timeless heirloom dress and also made memories with a family photoshoot in a lavender field.
The bluebird dress is also very special since it was inspired by Claire's story! Not only it is a beautiful design in itself but a meaningful one. More than a pretty dress, it's a way to honor God and give thanks for his tender signs of love revealing his presence in our lives.
Favorite way to spend mother/ daughter time :
We enjoy weekly tea parties and Royal Balls. We love to dress up in fancy dresses and pretend to be royalty. We dance to classical waltz playlists while we twirl, and laugh. I will cherish these moments for a lifetime.
Favorite place while visiting Paris :
I loved strolling along all the streets taking in the views of such iconic landmarks, The Eiffel Tower, Arc de Triomphe, The Louvre, and Notre Dame. And I also loved visiting Palace of Versailles. I felt transported back in time by the beauty and grandeur of the palace and gardens. I never wanted to leave.
Best motherhood advice :
My grandmother reassured me as I became a new mom and was overwhelmed with fear and uncertainty of how would I know what to do. “Don’t worry so much, your motherly instincts will just be there and take over, just trust those instincts ”. And she was correct!
What helped me the most during challenging times :
Surrendering to the plans of the Lord, trusting that his plans are better than mine. And to help me do just that, prayers and support from my husband, family and friends. The other scripture that helped me was Romans 12:12: “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer”.
Values I wish to instill :
My nightly prayer is for Claire to have a relationship with Jesus early in life. To always know how much she is loved and wanted. I pray that she is strong, confident and continues to be courageous. I pray that she always shows others genuine love and kindness.
Keeping memories :
I keep a journal of letters that I write to Claire. I started writing the letters when I was pregnant so I could remember what happened on certain days or exact details that I didn’t want to forget. I would imagine her reading the letters when she was older and hoping she would get an understanding of all the emotions that I was feeling. I have continued to keep notes and journals to document milestones or just a day I was overwhelmed with love. I always sign them love always and forever, Mom.
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